Honestly, I don't have very good advice, but keep being you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me.
All I can do is Trust in God. Thank you, Liz, for your very kind words and encouragement.
Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. When you are a man married to a female doctor.