Twin Flame Runners and chasers stages are not only in Twin flame connection. But there are other types of soulmates that go through the runner and Chaser stages. We have more than one type of soulmate that will enter in our life. This is a very intense and difficult not to mention painful time for Runners and Chasers in any of the soul connection family. Some people are in denial that they are twin flames, commonly they run, many times to only find themselves back with their other half.
What is a soulmate?
How do you know if you’ve found your soulmate?
Much has been written about soul connections, and how we feel an enormous connection to someone, sense that they feel it too, only to experience the devastation of having them walk, or some cases RUN away. This can then send us into a downward spiral of unimaginable grief, where we question the connection, ask ourselves if we imagined the whole thing, and assume that we must have been fooling ourselves because anyone who was feeling the intensity that we felt, would never have run away — and the ego just LOVES to be right. So lets take a peek into the world of the runner. This isnt the kind of fear that comes when you are faced with an instant danger, that kind of fear can be rationalised and it passes as soon as the danger has passed. The fear of the runner is all pervading, its the kind of fear that sits in the pit of your stomach, wakes you up at night, leaves you feeling uneasy, at risk and vulnerable. The worst part is feeling that as long as you remain in this connection, so does the fear. Its exhausting.
Victoria Zaitz, Pittsburgh Psychic Medium, Spiritual Counselor, Reiki Practitioner
Why soulmates run from a soulmate connection is a multi-faceted question. One of the main reasons soulmates run is because the connection is just too much to handle for them. It can make them feel like they are drowning from the intensity of the feelings. The soulmate connection takes over their thoughts and emotions in a way that frightens them. When a soulmate enters the picture, all of that goes right out the window. We become vulnerable in a way we have never been before. Being vulnerable is scary and uncomfortable. When the initial meeting of soulmates occurs, in most cases they are both flying high, just going with the flow.
Is your soulmate a runner who runs like hell from your connection? This happens in almost every soulmate relationship but may not know how to handle it. A soulmate runner will leave you feeling like the rug has been pulled out from under you. When a soulmate leaves you can become an emotional mess. This is understandable. Understandable, but not the end of the world. But you will need effective steps in dealing with it. The first thing you have to realize is this is not about you.